Gosh I could almost mirror image your post…..exactly the same scenario only I had 4 and I was financially independent of my EX. ALl I ever expected from him was to spend time and pay for whatever school supplies or new clothing they needed. Not bad…I thought…no support payments…I took 50 % of what we invested in our home…Most guys would be kissing the ground I walked on for that deal.

Then we come to school photos…might sound a bit piddly to some but considering the deal he already had…this was the straw that snapped my camels tolerance level. He refused to pay for half as he said he did not ask for them.

Also he was a smoker who told his kids when they asked him to please smoke outside when they were over and he told them that they could stand outsiede if they didn’t like it.

Again I repeat…..and that is why he is my EX!

I never ever disrespected him to my kids even thought he did his best to poison them against me which did not have a hope in hell to happen. Even though when they were younger and thought he was so cool because he had no rules when they stayed with him….as they became young adults they slowly pulled away from him and to this day have little to no respect for this man and that is why ….he is my EX!

They do their own damage. Your son will also grow up to know who this man called dad really is and what he is all about.

Thanks for sharing!