Hold on to your Family“Mother’s of teenagers know why animals eat their young.” This is a quote we’ve all seen often enough on funny bumper stickers and t-shirts and the like. It’s always made me laugh, but now that I’ve become the mother of a teenager – I think I might understand it a little better!

So when did my cute, dear little boy – turn into me. I was the teenager with the attitude – the only one who would talk back to my parents and all that, and now that’s my son! I always talk about me turning into my father, but I never realized that my children would turn into me!

My son turned thirteen in June, and it seems like ever since then he’s suddenly become a mouthy, insolent teenager. What happened to the sweet little boy who used to cuddle up on my lap and tell me how much he loved me? Now he spends ninety percent of his time locked away in his bedroom.

The worst part is, I remember being like that too. My family had taken to calling me “the mole” because I was always locked in my bedroom. What I don’t remember is what I did in my room for so much time. I know what my son does, heck, he’s got a TV, DVD, satellite, computer, PS2, Gamecube, PSP, Gameboy… etc. But at his age buy brand acomplia all I had was a boom box, so what exactly did I do in my room… Oh wait, it’s coming to me now – I had a telephone.

So how are we supposed to deal with teenage attitudes? Yell and scream a lot like my mother did? Or threaten to take off ‘the belt’ like my father did?

I don’t really like either drugs online without prescription of those options, as I do remember slightly what it was like to be that age.

How do you handle your teenagers?



  1. Jim (60 comments) on Thursday 9, 2008

    Leigh,

    All I have to say is good luck. I have the same problem with my daughter mouthing off and cannot control it. I have tried but my wife does not back me. Now if Russ will back you, you might have better luck than me. My daughter is now 16 and I have been putting up with this for about 2 -3 years. I sucks. Hope you have better luck than I have had.

  2. Leigh (730 comments) on Thursday 9, 2008

    My husband is actually harder on him than I am, as I remember having the same attitude problem when I was that age. So, I guess you could say he supports me wonderfully. But I’m not sure it’s true the other way around.

    Over the years, I’ve realized, with both myself and my kids, that it’s easier to pick your battles. Don’t sweat the small stuff, but blow up big time at the big stuff. If not, I would never get to really enjoy my children, because I would always be yelling at them.

  3. Ice Rabia (2 comments) on Thursday 9, 2008

    I can relate to your problems. My daughter is not even a teenager yet, she’s still 10 years old. But I am giving her strict rules now, better do it while you still can… Because as they get older, it will be harder to discipline kids…

  4. Leigh (730 comments) on Thursday 9, 2008

    I agree Ice. We’ve always been rather strict with our children, at least according to my family, who thinks we are a bit too strict.

    I guess in my opinion, as they get older, and more independent, I should have to discipline less, not more. Unfortunately, teenagers don’t realize this.